Stop seeking approval and recognition from peers, family and mostly your parents. You don’t need to be better than them. you need to be the best version of yourself, not of anyone else.
Stop looking at things as they seem. Things aren’t exactly as they are, they are exactly as you are. Think about that.
Stop reacting/answering according to your own beliefs and life experience. Be bold, be fresh and new. forget right/wrong and good/bad concepts (at the eyes of society). Everyone acts according to their own path and existence and it can well be completely different than yours.
Stop being a self-prisoner. Break the chains, forget etiquette or protocols that keep you away from showing your emotions, your passions, your sadness or your happiness. Be transparent.
Stop looking back and letting the past haunting you down, look at it when it makes sense to improve your journey, not as a regret or a hope that good times might be back one day. they won’t (those days, but you might have even better ones in the future if you free yourself from the past).
Stop being afraid of the future, it’s not there yet. you’re reading this post today, not tomorrow. Don’t try to map out your vision from your starting point until the top of the hill. Things will go different, circumstances will be in between. You’ll reach it, but not the way you could predict it. That’s the fun of the journey ha?
OK, enough of reading all the way down “stop…stop…stop” as might be a bit annoying or predictable, lets switch the speech.
Surprises – Be ready to adapt, change and look from different angles, do it with passion enthusiasm and less fear.
Move on- having plans and visions without enthusiastic action won’t take you from where you are. the world is full of good intentions.
Observe, read your surroundings and your path. Don’t judge, don’t criticize, don’t take value from others achievements.
Detach yourself from your fears – imagine what you could accomplish (and miss out) due to your fears and blockers.
Dream. Dream alive, dream during the day, project yourself. The dreams will boost you forward and energize the way you face your day, this one and all the others to come. That’s why I’m writing this post, to bring you along on that journey. The dream becomes your purpose and together with inspired actions you might become your real self, the one you could be and not the one you’re sabotaging currently.